Four tips for twenty-somethings to navigate the generation gap at work

Carter DuryeaI ran across this Chronicle of Philanthropy article, which discusses generation gap challenges in the non-profit workplace. As someone who has been the youngest person in every organization I’ve worked with, I can fully understand the challenges of balancing that gap.

The article reminded me of In Good Company, a 2004 film in which Topher Grace plays Carter Duryea, a naive, know-it-all twenty-something who flails in a job managing people twice his age.

In Good Company
is one of my favorite movies (well worth renting or buying), and if you pay attention to the things Carter did wrong, you can learn some great lessons on how twenty-somethings can effectively handle being the NKOTB (New Kid on the Block) and use it to advance one’s career:

Enter with humility. From day one, be respectful and mannerable to all employees, no matter their rank or age and go out of your way to be nice to people. I carve time out of my day to have a conversation with each of my coworkers, and everyone in the office hears my Southern “How yall doing?” spoken to everyone I pass in our building. This shatters the stereotype of the young know-it-all punk and sets the tone for open conversation and friendships.

Build relationships with the veterans. When I took my first political job, I befriended the woman whose office was next door. She was the longest-serving employee, having served at least 7 years more than both the CEO and CFO, and had the largest state-wide network of anyone there. She not only gave me great insight into the business, but she also became my mentor, giving me valuable career and personal advice, standing up for me when a bully attacked, and giving me references. Although I moved on from that job, she and I still keep in touch.

Seek institutional knowledge. Ask the people who have been at your organization for a while to give you context on the organization’s history and current problems. Not only will you better understand the issues facing the organization, you’ll almost always learn some lessons and potential pitfalls you wouldn’t otherwise see. Plus, it helps with relationship building.

Be helpful outside of your job responsibilities. You can easily win friends and influence your older coworkers by being of service to them. At one job, the staff was responsible for taking the trash outside to the curb three times a week, and I volunteered to lead trash duty each week. At my current job, one other coworker (who is 25 and really cool) and I have helped teach MS Excel and Publisher to veterans without much computer experience. It continues relationship building and developing an office brand of being helpful and a team player.

These tips have helped me navigate the generation gap in my career, and I hope it can help someone avoid making Carter Duryea’s mistakes.

Don’t use grad school to break into fundraising

In the last post, I suggested several professional development programs that young professionals should look at in order to build their credentials for a career in fundraising. In response, a friend of mine shot me an email this morning, questioning if grad school was an option to break into fundraising or get high-paying jobs in non-profits. This is definitely not the case. Grad school is not a smart option for millennials trying to break into the field.

There are a few professional degree programs in fundraising out there — Columbia and NYU to name a few. However, these programs don’t seem to provide anything that good work experience in fundraising and some professional development couldn’t — at a fraction of the cost.

As Penelope Trunk has pointed out several times, grad school isn’t something 20-somethings should rush into.

I would recommend that people wanting to break into the field pursue the professional development programs I listed in the last post and spend years working in the non-profit or political sphere to gain work experience and perspective on the fundraising world.

Now, some of us millennials are Covey-esque in our “begin with the end in mind” thoughts — we might not go to grad school now, but we like to think about what programs we should be applying to in the years to come. Heck, I have GMAT, LSAT and GRE books on my bookshelf, just so I’m prepared for whatever program I decide to apply for in the future.

If after working in the field for five years you are truly interested in making fundraising your career, a graduate degree is required to get top, senior-level jobs — senior consulting for big firms, CEO gigs for large foundations, and serving as vice president for development or advancement at universities. There is no set degree path to getting senior-level jobs, though, and that’s pretty frustrating to a lot of folks.

Many people would recommend versatile degrees such as MBAs or JDs for seasoned professionals looking to get top fundraising jobs. One of my former bosses, NYC Education Chancellor Joel Klein, said that getting a professional degree in an uber-specific field limits you in the long run and highly recommended a law or B-school for both the non-profit and for-profit worlds.

But it’s a matter of choice. In an old Chronicle of Higher Ed article, Mark Drozdowski, a fundraising administrator at Pierce College in NJ, outlines the many degree paths you could choose (degrees in law, business, higher ed, public policy, and philanthropic studies) to enhance a fundraising career and get to that senior level, but his final recommendation is the same as mine– professional development.

Build your fundraising credentials through professional development

One of the most frustrating parts about a career in development is that there is no set path into the field. Most of the people I encounter come from seemingly random backgrounds and degree paths and connected to fundraising during parts of their careers. My mentors in development have been journalists, pharmacists, and even sociologists before becoming fundraisers, and I got into the field after a degree in history — North Carolina history, to be exact.

So how can someone get training in fundraising or make themselves marketable to development employers? The key is professional development.

There are many part-time or seminar-based programs in fundraising that not only give you great skills but can enhance your resume significantly. If you’re looking to break into the field, or if you’re a non-profit professional, you should check out these programs:

Duke University Certificate in Non-Profit Management: I’m partial to this program because I’m in it, but it offers workshop courses all over NC on all aspects of non-profits, but with the option to concentrate on fundraising courses. Most of the workshops last one day at a time — so you can take a day off or ask your employer for a professional day — and it’s quite affordable. More important, it’s taught by NC fundraising consultants and professionals, and gives a lot of options for networking.

The Fundraising School at IUPUI: The premiere place for development training, the Indiana University-Perdue University Indianapolis offers an excellent training program on all aspects of fundraising. It’s a bit expensive, but it’s definitely worth looking into if you can afford it. My boss is pursuing training there.

Association of Fundraising Professionals: The “trade organization” for fundraisers is an excellent place to get great training. Their website lists a host of information, including job listings, that is free, but membership gets you access their listserv (which is invaluable) and great trainings that are free to members or reduced in price. The biggest perk is that there are local chapters nation-wide, cutting down your travel that could be a problem for the other two programs.

There are also affordable programs in the political fundraising arena. Even if you aren’t interested in working in politics, the lessons of political fundraising can help you immensely in the non-profit world.

EMILY’s List has quite possibly the best political fundraising training there is. The organization specializes in getting Democratic, pro-choice women elected to office up and down the ballot, but their training is open to all genders. They take the show on the road, so check and see if they’re near you.

Camp Wellstone is the best thing I did during my career in politics. The training teaches people how to run campaigns like Sen. Paul Wellstone, UNC alum and all-around great guy who was tragically killed in a plane crash. The fundraising portion of the program is phenomenal, and they travel more than EMILY’s list does. They’re all over the US and on college campuses.